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It’s just words – with a whole lot of emotion behind them

While reading through some forums where husbands and wives were talking about their low to no drive spouses – I started noticing the words used to describe their spouses and sex lives.  I decided to compile a list of some of the words that I have seen over and over on many of these forums.  Here is the list of words I pulled out after about an hour of going through a couple of forums again.  I changed some of them to their descriptive form for the purpose of this post.   I have to say, it was a depressing hour!  I felt so sad for these people and even sadder when I realized all of these words could have been used to describe me in my early marriage!

Silent – Passionless – Uncaring – Heartless – Cruel – Disrespectful – Irritating – Indifferent – Selfish – Frigid – Frustrating – Insensitive – Belittling – Rude – Rejecting – Cold – Controlling – Uncompromising – Resentful – Unresponsive – Revengeful – Asexual – Neglectful – Hurtful – Dysfunctional – Naïve – Prudish – Inhibited – Repressed – Withholding – Unwilling – Sheltered – Rigid – Anxious – Reluctant – Critical – Angry – Ambivalent – Disconnected – Dismissive – Uninvolved – Withdrawn – Unloving – Sad – Depressing – Unreasonable – Resistant – Blaming – Distracted – Unsatisfying – Offensive – Critical – Unappreciative – Confusing

These are just words, but there is a whole lot of emotions behind them – and it’s definitely not happy emotions!

 

 

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2 thoughts on “It’s just words – with a whole lot of emotion behind them

  1. Sad huh ?
    I’ld add lonely as well to that list, cos without that closeness you may as well just be a flat mate / neighbour,/ ward member/ workmate.
    Nothing special.
    You can have that relationship with only one person in all the world..only one
    Do you really want to pass that up people ?
    Don’t you want to see what it could be like!!??????
    Even a teeny bit curious!?

    • It is very sad, Kiss!! I wonder what the offending spouses would say if they saw these descriptions of themselves! I would hope it would shock them into a desire to change!

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